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But is it true that it’s ESPECIALLY hard for you to ? If you’re anything like most Asian guys, you probably believe it is.Somewhere through your childhood, you had some bad expereince where a white woman turned you down, VICIOUSLY stomped all over your heart and you’ve been scarred from that moment onwards.And it’s also clear that a point I touched on in my blog—about how this dialogue about Asian female-white male relationships hasn’t progressed much in the past twenty years; that much of it is still on the level of “if you’re an Asian woman and you’re with a white man, you’re a traitor”–is still true.As evidence, check out some of comments from that blog: Look, I get it—though things have improved in recent years, Asian men are still often seen as asexual and emasculated in American pop culture.Lisa Wong Macabasco joined Hyphen in 2006; she has worked as the magazine's features editor, managing editor, and editor in chief. Berkeley and Columbia University’s Graduate School of Journalism and co-founded the National Asian American Student Conference.She has written for Mother Jones, the San Francisco Bay Guardian, Asian Week, Audrey, Filipinas and Color Lines’ Race Wire. She was formerly an editor at Asian Week newspaper and an editor in the marketing department of the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art. In order to speak from your high horse for such a long time without your ass getting sore; you need a saddle.
You can read my original blog here so I won’t repeat the points that I previously made, but it’s clear this is still a relevant issue–it quickly became one of our most read blogs ever.
So, instead of trying to convince you of fact that white women do actually date yellow men, I’m just going to show you a video.
It’s a video of a Chinaman who dated a WHITE San Deigo Chargers Cheerleader.
And yes, there are Asian women out there who subscribe to the “I’m not attracted to Asian dudes/I only date white dudes” philosophy (fuck ‘em, they don’t know what they’re missing).
These are still problems that need addressing so I understand why some of you might feel that an Asian women dating a white guy is a hypocrite and has forfeited her right to speak for the community.